The squirt!

Men love the idea of a woman that can squirt pussy juice...and thanks to porn, they've seen it and expect all women to be able to do it.  Well, its not as easy as it looks!!

I've squirted a few times..but by no means as much as I would like.  Honestly, it feels good to squirt...its the culmination of a very strong orgasm.  It requires a very wet pussy and a man that isn't afraid to go that extra mile to see a pussy squirt like a fountain! 

I started looking for a good way to explain how to make a pussy squirt and here is a real life demonstration ;) http://www.redtube.com/15878

Now, I will say that when I squirted...my lover was licking my clit, flicking his tongue all over it..at the same time he has his middle finger buried in my soaking wet pussy..pushing up towards my belly button and moving it in and out.  When I came, I surprised both of us by squirting everywhere!  It felt and looked awesome from both our points of view!  However, it doesn't happen every time and sometimes the more you try to make it happen, the less likely it will...almost like with a regular orgasm!  One thing I have noticed is the more I do kegels, the more I squirt. I feel that by building up strength in our pelvic muscles..it helps to propel our sweet juice out even more forcefully!

Squirting is such a rarity among women that aren't  porn stars that when it does happen, your guy will be in awe of you!  It is something tho that you may need to practice before it actually happens..finding the right spot and the right pressure and rhythm requires some willingness to try try and try again on both your parts! (that shouldnt' be hard, it just means more sex!)  However, don't let the goal of a squirt make you think that anything less is a failure.  Just because she doesn't squirt, doesn't mean she didn't cum!! 

A squirting pussy is a visual feast for the eyes...a climaxing female, moaning..bucking and squirting cum from her wet hole is what fantasies are made of for men.  So, there is no doubt that they'd love to see their partner doing it.  So, if you want your woman to squirt, then take some time and really learn the inside of her pussy, then you can easily feel that delicious little fleshy spot inside her that will make her your personal cum fountain.  Also, listen to what she SAYS..if she's moaning for you to go slower, or push up harder..then do THAT..not what the videos say.  She knows her body and what feels good, so listen to her.

If you are lucky enough to have a woman that squirts once, then consider yourself lucky.  If you get her to squirt more than that, then consider yourself a sex god! ;)  Just remember that it shouldn't be the only goal of sex...its about bonding, sharing, loving and pleasing each other.  So, if your woman never squirts its not a failing on her..or your part, its just life.  Enjoy what you have and if you want to see a pussy squirt, well there is porn for that!  As always, happy fucking!



All pics/video are via Yany's EroticPics

What men get wrong..

There are several things that men get wrong about women.  Women aren't as mysterious as men think.  You can figure us out and when you do maybe make the road to finding love a little less bumpy.  I'm going to break this down into 2 parts...dating and sex.  I'll discuss dating first.

1. If you like us..call soon.  Men think they should wait, but if we are into you and you're into us..then waiting just makes us worry if we misread your signals.  By the time you call, we've over analyzed the relationship to the point that we may have talked ourselves out of liking you.  So, call her.

2. We don't want to hear about your ex.  We don't want to hear about your problems or about how hot she was...or how great the sex was.  I've actually had dates that told me what a "freak" their ex was in bed.  Ummm, that's great, then maybe you should still be with HER.  It's a bad idea to start off a relationship making your new love be in a competition/comparison with your old love.

3.  Don't jump right in with sex talk.  We immediately think you JUST want to get us in bed, and you're a player.  Plus, it's kind of pervy.  Yeah, we like sex talk, but not from a virtual stranger.

4.  Compliments should be sincere.  Complimenting a woman's attributes is more effective than a general compliment.  Example--"You have a great laugh!"  will thrill her a lot more than "That is a nice shirt."  Women have a bullshit radar when it comes to compliments, we can spot a fake one a mile away...so be sincere, or keep your mouth shut. 

5.  If you don't like us...don't be rude.  We've all had dates where we didn't feel a "connection".  That doesn't give you the right to be a rude jackass.  Looking/flirting with other women while on our date, ditching us, or being rude in hopes we'll leave is all BAD FORM.  Be a gentleman.  A few hours of civility won't kill you.  We may not be a love match, but if you are kind and polite, then it may lead to a friendship...or us setting you up with one of our friends!  Remember if you are a jerk...word of mouth gets around. 

6.  Don't shove your tongue in our mouth on our first kiss.  Frenching can be saved for when we know each other better.  First kisses should be soft, lingering and just on the lips.  If you try to shove your tongue down my throat, I'll think you're just looking for a fuck at the end of the date.  If you want a second date, better to go in soft and slow and leave her wanting more.

7.  Do Not have sex with us if you aren't into us.  Guys will sometimes go out with a woman that they aren't really "that into", yet they'll still have sex with her.  Then he doesn't call and she's wracked with regret and feels like there is something wrong with her..maybe the sex was bad, or she said something to upset you.  You'll walk away with a smug smile, she'll wonder for weeks what happened.  If you aren't into her, then move on.

8.  We carry grudges.  Women remember everything.  Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.  So, if you miss  her birthday or a special event...she may forgive, but she sure won't forget.  This leads me to my next one...

9. Do Not make promises you can't keep.  Don't stand her up, don't break dates, don't make plans and never follow through.  Every woman understand something coming up occasionally, but if you make a habit of it, she'll lose faith and trust in you.  No woman wants a man that can't or won't keep his word.  It shows a lack of character and respect.

10. RESPECT...be polite, and be courteous.  It's a date...she's not "one of the guys".  So open her car door...or ANY door for her.  Let her order first.  Let her be seated first.  Show her that you are a MAN not a boy and you understand that a woman should be treated in a respectful manner.  Even if the date doesn't end up as a love connection, she will remember how you treated her..forever.

Now, things that men get wrong, or may not know about women and sex.  

1.  Hurtful "compliments"...if you say it in a joking manner, but it's an insult...that doesn't make it funny.  Example "Hey sweetie, why don't you get your big ass up and get me another beer."  or "That girl looks like you, back when you were hot."  Making your partner insecure on purpose will just lead to less love, less sex and less respect. 

2.  Women hate giving blow jobs.  Ummm..no we don't.  What we don't like is a guy that constantly tries to shove his cock down our throat until we gag, or can't breathe (you know when you're in our throat you're blocking our air!).  Most women enjoy giving blowjobs, because we like pleasuring our partner.  What we don't like is when our mouth is used like a pussy and you leave us hoarse and barely able to swallow for days!

3.  You lay back and let us do all the "work".  Okay, sex is a participation sport.  If you want us to hop on and ride you every time we have sex, and all you do is lay there....then you're going to find our interest in sex starts to wane.  Everyone has to do their share.  That means, changing up positions...being interactive and no one just lays there!!

4.  Women can cum just from being fucked.  Thanks to porn, there is a whole generation of men that think that women can cum without any clitoral stimulation at all....that just the act of fucking will make her have a mind blowing orgasm.  Let me be the first to tell you...this is so rare, you'd have a better chance of catching a Yeti than giving a woman an orgasm without stimulating her clit.  When it comes to women and sex...the clit is where it's at.  If you want to be a great lover, then learn how to touch her clit!  When you are fucking, encourage her to rub her clit...or you do it for her!  I will say that the best orgasms I have are when I'm being fucked and rubbing my clit at the same time.  Either by itself feels good, but combine then and WOWWWW! 

5.  We love kissing but what's with all the tongue?!  Seriously, guys your tongue is really big and when you shove it in our mouths...well it's NOT sexy.  Tease us with the tip of it when you kiss us.  JUST the tip, if she wants more you'll know..she'll suck on it.  If not, then remember when kissing...less tongue is more!  PS. Also, don't try to engulf her whole face when you kiss...the worst kisser I ever had (yes, I still remember him!) literally sucked off my makeup from my nose to my chin!  I felt like he was trying to eat me face first!!  Please, don't be THAT guy!!

6. Anal is painful.  Seriously, it hurts.  So, if you are going to butt fuck us...make sure we are in agreement (don't try to "sneak" it in our ass, because we will notice!)  and make sure to use LUBE and go SLOW.  Don't get caught up in the excitement and hurt your woman because then your chance of ever getting to butt fuck her again are comparable to hitting the lottery.  Go slow, use lube, get her ready by using your fingers first and then let her control the rate of penetration.  Listen to what she says..she'll tell you slower/faster/wait/pull out...whatever she says goes. 

7.  Don't pressure her to fuck you before she's ready.  Will it really kill you if you have to wait until the 3rd or even 5th date to get her into bed?  No, it won't.  So, enjoy dating and the build up and anticipation of passion for a while and stop trying to get her into bed asap.  It will be better sex if you are more familiar with each other and have established a relationship.  So, stop being in such a rush for instant gratification...you're grown, you can wait a while...it will be worth it!

8.  Women dont' want sex as much as men....ummm I'm calling BULLSHIT on that one!  Women love sex, it feels good and we are as horny as men.  However, there are things that affect our libido.  If we work all day, come home and make dinner, do laundry, and bath the kids while you watch TV..then we probably aren't going to feel up to being your sex toy in the bedroom.  Stress, resentment, anger...these are reasons women will reject sex.  So, think about how you can give her some time to destress and wind down before bedtime and you might just see how horny she can be!

9.  Women are great communicators...except for some reason, in the bedroom.  We will go for years dealing with bad sex instead of just speaking up and saying what we want and need.  There has to be communication, but we dont' want to feel we are "hurting your feelings" or we may be too embarrassed to say that our clit needs more attention.  Communication is KEY yet I think we could all use a little more communication in the bedroom.  So, get your woman to talk about your sex life and you may find out things you never knew!!

10. RESPECT again...show your woman respect, in bed and out.  If she's not into something, then respect her boundaries.  If she says NO, then it's NO.  If she needs more time to cum, then give it to her.  Be the man she wants in bed and out...and she'll be the woman you want in bed and out too.

Next, I'll be working on a blog about what women get wrong...so it will be fair ;)  If you have anything to add, leave a comment!  xoxo


all pics via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

GUEST BLOG by RacerX "Girls Gone South"

Welcome to my second guest post for YogaChikk's blog. My first post, "The tongue is not just for tasting" got pretty good reviews by YogaChikk's readers, since I offered a man's perspective, so I am going to attempt to do the same with my second guest post. That first post was on the subject of guys going south, so this post is on the subject of women going south.

Yeah, sure, every man loves it when a woman goes down. Just like men eating pussy, some women do it, some don't. Some do it well, some don't. Some love doing it, some will just dabble in it. Some finish what they start, and some don't. Every girl is different. This post is not intended to speak for all men, just me. YogaChikk said she liked "my perspective", so here goes....

Of course I love it when a girl does down on me. It's a major turn on, especially since I stated how much I love going down on a woman in my first post. But my perspective on it is a little different from some men, I am sure. I have seen porn videos where the girl is mauling down on it, gagging on it, and acting like she is trying to suck the guy's spine out of his back. No thank you, not for me. I much prefer a girl to do it sensually, and slowly.

My personal preference, hands are cheating. If a girl uses her hands while giving good head, it is cheating. It's like a handjob with the added benefit of a mouth and tongue. I prefer the hands to be on the boys, or squeezing the base of the shaft (or both) as I get closer to exploding. For me, my balls are my G-Spot. I have no clue why, but a woman massaging, rubbing, squeezing, licking or sucking on the boys will make me explode in all directions.

I like a girl to start by teasing it with her tongue, just like I would tease her pussy with my tongue. I LOVE for a girl to talk dirty to me while she's teasing it, just like I would talk dirty to her while I was teasing her pussy. Even something as simple as "you want it?" or "ya gonna cum for me?" will bring me to the edge. A girl doesn't have to deep throat it if she does it well on the top half of it. Lick and suck the head, and as she goes down on it, suck harder coming up than while going down. Feeling the shaft sliding up and down her tongue inside that hungry mouth drives me out of my mind. Looking me in the eyes while she's doing it is a major turn on. Closing their eyes and trying to break their neck and gagging on it simply does nothing for me. It's supposed to be a sensual act of passion, not an attempt to do damage to it. Suck it firmly, but suck it slowly, but most of all, suck it passionately. Lick it, tease it, kiss it, from top to bottom. Massage and rub the boys. Squeeze them, lick them, and suck them. That's where the explosion originates. Make it WANT to explode.

Which brings us to the moment of truth. When it all cums down to it, some girls will swallow, some girls won't. Some will open their mouth and stick their tongue out and let you spray it on their tongue and lips. Some girls will take it on the face, some will take it on their tits, or just aim it anywhere other than their mouth, face or body. To me, it doesn't matter. I don't care where it goes, because there is nothing more passionate than a woman making your dick explode with her mouth and tongue. My preference? I don't have one. As long as she finishes what she starts, I don't care where it goes. If she swallows, fine. No mess to clean up. If she takes it on the face, fine. If she takes it on her tits, fine. If she ducks out of the way and points it at the ceiling or the wall, fine. If she is passionate enough to give me that pleasure, the major turn on for me is her being passionate enough to take it to the finish. Because after she is done giving me that degree of passion and pleasure, I am going to give her my passion and pleasure by doing what I love to do most, and that's making her have a mind bending orgasm with my tongue. If you read my first guest post, you will know what I am referring to.

And yes, I do absolutely LOVE a long slow passionate 69 ... but that's for another post in the future. :-)

Scream..or moan?

Do you scream or moan during sex?  Are you loud or quiet?  When it comes to noise during sex...everyone has a "style" some people are just naturally more quiet and subdued than others.

I've already done a blog about talking dirty...this isn't about that.  This is about when your lover makes you cum and your body arches and your pussy clenches, do you bite your lip and moan or do you take a deep breath and scream your pleasure?

Now, I will say that I've had lovers that like the fact that I'm a screamer, but I've also had lovers that found my squeals and screams...distracting.  So, honestly no matter if you are loud or quiet..you just have to go what feels right for you.  The few times I've tried to "quiet down" to accommodate a lover that wasn't into my noisy style, it really inhibited my orgasm.  I suddenly became more aware of the noises I was making than how good my body was feeling.  In fact, the lovers that I've had that didn't like the noises I make, didn't stay my significant other for very long.  I won't say that it was the catalyst for the relationship ending, but it was a nail in the "coffin" so to speak.

Personally, I think that sex is joyful and however you choose to express your joy should be accepted by your lover.  I know some men that want their women to be more vocal, but if she is enjoying herself and her moans show her pleasure, then don't worry...you're doing something right!!  Often women will moan as a way of letting her lover know that he's doing something really good and we want you do it again...and AGAIN!!

If women have a "secret code" that men need to unlock, it's the power of the moan!!  When you hear it, take note of what you're doing and remember to do it again.  A woman that is shy or quiet may not tell you that she loves it when you flick her clit with your tongue instead of sucking on it...but, if you listen to her moan, you'll KNOW!  I have used this myself to guide lovers.  Some picked up on it, and some didn't.  The older I got...the less patient I was with a lover that didn't pick up on my moans and I started just telling them "YES, right there baby, do that again!! I LOVE IT!"  If you've tried moans and he isn't responding, then you might have to just speak up!

So, whether you are a screamer or a moaner...just remember sex is about enjoying yourself and having fun.  Don't try to fit into a box and be someone you aren't, do what comes natural...because, isn't that what sex is about in the first place? As always...happy fucking! ;)



all video via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

Wet panties

Too often we are in a rush to get naked...but wait, is there anything as sexy as a pair of wet panties covering a horny pussy?  For a guy..you get a great visual of exactly how juicy her slit is...and for her, she gets the ultimate tease of you fingering her slit through that thin veil of material!

Personally, I love having my pussy teased.  It probably comes from my first real boyfriend...he had a finger fucking fetish and I loved it!!  He'd massage my pussy through my panties while we kissed and just when I was getting ready to cum...he's slip a finger under the edge of my panties and push it into my sopping wet hole.  It never failed to make me cum hard.  Even before we had sex, he knew exactly how to make me cum!

I think that panties are under utilized.  It is a huge turn on for a guy to see just how wet his woman gets!!  Even though he may know you have a juicy pussy...getting to actually SEE your soaked panty covered crotch will bring things to a whole new level! 

Men tend to underestimate just how much women like having their pussy touched.  They will immediately go down to lick it, but it will be wetter, and taste better if you get the juices flowing first.  Get her clit hard and primed for your tongue, by fingering her!  Whatever you do, don't forget that the clit is the star of the party..whether you are fingering her, or licking her, or fucking her..make sure her clit is stimulated if you want her to cum and think you're a sex god!!

all pics via www.eroticpics.tumblr.com

GUEST BLOG!! "The tongue is not just for tasting" by RacerX

Welcome to my first guest post on YogaChikk's blog. I am a long time fan of her blog, it never fails to arouse me every time I visit. I am offering a man's perspective on eating pussy, which for me personally, is my favorite thing to do. For me, it's a passion.

Some men do it, some men don't. Some do it well, some don't. Since I LOVE to do it, I take pride in it. But it's not just that sweet juicy pussy that gets the attention of my tongue, it's getting there that's half the fun. After engaging in a long passionate kiss, I like to start at the neck and tease my way to the promised land. The neck, the ear, the shoulders, and of course some quality time on the nipples and tits are prime targets for the tongue to tease and entice. When she knows you're going down there, teasing your way there slowly will make her enjoy it so much more. The anticipation of what's to cum will drive her absolutely insane if it's done right.

And when I get to that sweet honey hole, I like to tease even more. I like to look her in the eyes and let her feel my breath on it. Then just touch that glistening wet clit with my tongue and say "you want it?" and then touch it again with my tongue and tell her "tell me you want it". But the teasing doesn't stop there. Licking and kissing the entire surrounding area will make her squirm with pleasure. Gentle kisses on those wet lips, teasing them with the tongue, and even running my tongue back and forth up the inside of her legs. It's all about anticipation, it's all about making her want it so bad she can't see straight. Then when she can't see straight, that's when I really go to town on it. It's not just about licking it. I like to tease and suck on that clit until it's red and swollen and soaking wet, sucking on it like it's a nipple. Gently squeezing on either side of it with my fingers to make it push out and up and licking every drop of juice from it. The clit gives her pleasure, so I like to give pleasure to the clit.

Then when she is in a frenzy from getting licked like a lollipop, I like to pull those lips open and slide my tongue inside it. I like to refer to it as "french kissing" that pussy. I like it when she wraps her legs around my neck and puts her feet on my back, while rubbing my head with her hands and grinding up and down on my face. To me, there is NOTHING that turns me on more than bringing a woman to a mind bending orgasm with my tongue. Watching her eyes roll back in her head, watching her squirm and literally have a seizure on my tongue makes me as hard as a brick. I have found that the better the pleasure you give a woman before sliding that rock hard dick inside her, she is going to fuck you with a LOT more intensity in return. It's not just that I love to do it. It's about her pleasure. Her pleasure is my pleasure, watching a woman cum turns me on more than sex itself. And for me, there's a great deal of satisfaction knowing that I did it with just my tongue.

Massage it!

One of the things that I most enjoy during sex is when my lover rubs his cock head up and down my slit.  The feel of his cock nudging my sensitive clit then slipping over my hole is incredibly sexy.  It's a tease in the best way!!

When your lover is rubbing his cock between your pussy lips, visually it is HOT!  He gets to see your puffy lips parting for his big head.  He gets to see your juice making his cock shiny.  He gets to feel how slippery wet you get.  On the other side, you get clit stimulation...and that is ALWAYS good.  Plus, the way his cock teases your opening is enough to make any woman arch her hips and beg to be fucked!

I think we are too often in a hurry to complete the act of sex.  Sometimes, we need to take a few minutes and let our bodies tease each other.  Having your pussy rubbed by his cock is a perfect example of this.  It feels completely different than having your pussy fingered, or even licked.  Each is a unique sensation, however having his cock rub against your slit gives you BOTH stimulation..unlike him fingering or licking you.

I'll share one of my "sex moves" with you...because I know that every man I've ever been with  has enjoyed having me grab his cock in my hand and "masturbate" my pussy with it.  I've rubbed his cock head up and down my slit..massaging my clit with it, before slipping it down and letting it just barely enter my hole, before bringing it back up to rub my clit again.  I keep this up until I cum...or he loses control and thrusts it  up into my pussy and starts fucking me! 

So, don't forget that there are a lot of fun things you can do with his cock besides just sucking it.  Shake things up and try making his cock your "toy" for a night...and remember foreplay is the best part of sex, so don't rush to the finish line!
all pics/video via www.eroticpics.tumblr.com

Rutting males and willing women!

I love pics of a pussy getting pounded...that intensity, the look on her face, the rhythm of  his thrusting...it's just so damn HOT!!  Some of the videos below, I know that her pussy has to be aching after he was done pounding the bottom out of it!! 

Now, should every sexual encounter be this intense? No, of course not...there is a time for making love and a time for fucking hard.  However, anyone that has ever been in the "home stretch" know that even when you are making love...things can get pretty intense as you and your partner near that cumming point!!

Personally, I love it hard as I'm getting ready to cum...in fact, I've been known to beg a lover, "HARDER FUCK ME HARDER!!!"  Hoping to get my pussy rutted out by a horny male in a sexual frenzy ;)  After I've had sex, and my partner and I are laying side by side..panting and telling each other how good it was, I want to feel my pussy throbbing, I want my lips to be red and swollen from the pummeling they just received. 

Sex is one of those things that there can be a whole range of emotions and intensity in a very short time span.  You can begin by kissing and whispering and making love.  You can end by fucking, screaming and saying all those naughty words that a lady should never say--in public ;)

So, enjoy the ride and these videos as much as I have!! xoxo
video below via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com



below pics via www.storagemistress.tumblr.com

GUEST BLOG "Why I love black men" by Jungle Fever Cougar

GUEST BLOG by my friend "Junge Fever Cougar". I hope you enjoy her post as much as I do. Hopefully, we'll see more guest blogs by her in the future.

Written with love by Jungle Fever Cougar

I grew up in a small town of about 3500 white people. We had two black kids in school,both adopted by white families. So, I wasn’t really aware of anything else. Myfamily wasn’t racist by any means. It just wasn’t around us. My hometown was1/3 Polish, 1/3 Italian, and 1/3 Irish. The Italians seemed dark to us.

When I was 6, I was taking art classes in the nearest city. Driving there one morning, we were at a red light and I glanced at the man on the corner. Then I stared. I had never seen anything like him: Tall, muscular, and the darkest person I had ever seen in my life. I was fascinated. I wanted to go up and touch him to see if he was real. Mom said to stop staring because it was rude. I stopped staring…for a few moments. I’ve spent the last 35 years of my life staring at those gorgeous, black men.

I had a black boyfriend in high school. He was from another town. I took him to the Homecoming dance one year. That garnered a lot of attention, since he was pretty much the only person of color there. It was fun, but some kids had mean things to say. We just ignored it.

My first real, down and dirty lover came many years later. I was in my late 20s andliving in a town where professional athletes trained. At the club one night,one of them started to flirt with me. I was wasted, but at that moment, I was in love. He was well over 6 feet tall, with legs as big as my waist. And one of the darkest men I had ever seen in my life. I took him home that night. That was the beginning of my love of black men.

They’re different. There’s a passion that they have about what they do. The deep smoothness of their voices. Self-confidence. Swagger. No, they don’t all have monster cocks, but most of them do. They’ll say whatever is on their mind. And they appreciate a woman with some attitude & curves. Mainly, they appreciate me. I can’t go anywhere without at least 2 of them coming up to talk to me or hit on me. “Like moths to a flame,” one of the guys told me. I had to ask him why they loved me so. That’s all he could say.

Since that night, I’ve had a few dozen black lovers. There have been some others mixed in,but my lust for that dark, smooth skin has never died out.

I like seeing our skin tones match and clash at the same time. The brilliance of white against deep mahogany fascinates me. The super dark nipples. Full, soft lips.Hair that’s different from one man to another. The tight, black curls leadingdown their stomachs. The way their fingernails are so much lighter than theirfingers. The darkness of their bodies just feels…warmer than a light-skinnedperson. A black man’s ass always looks better.

I’ve dated the most ghetto black guys you’ve ever seen. I’ve banged athletes from almost every professional sport out there. And each and every one of them loved my big tits and non-white girl ass. Every one of them doled out more compliments than I’ve ever heard in my life. Whether it was a 15-minute affair or lasted for over a year, I loved every single one of them during the time we spent together. Their beauty made my eyes water.

No matter where I go, the black men will always be the first to catch my eye. Of course,I’m first to catch theirs.

Show me the cum!

I'm not sure how you feel about it..but, I know that guys often like the porn shots that show a woman with a mouthful of cum after giving a blowjob. Now, I don't know about you ladies, but I am usually too busy swallowing to catch it in my mouth!

I would assume if you are a woman that "spits" instead of "swallows" then you'd hold the cum in your mouth and be able to give that much desired cum shot for your guy.

When it comes to cum, do you guys want to see it in our mouths?? You'll have to comment and let me know if I'm wrong in assuming that a lot of guys want to see their women do this. Because (1) it would mean you got a blowjob and (2) it would show you how much she loves the taste of your cum!

I wonder if you had the option of giving a girl a facial or seeing your cum on her tongue..which would you choose?? I've had facials and I like the feel of warm cum spraying onto my face. I know some women that aren't into this...just like some women aren't in to swishing cum around in their mouth like it's mouthwash. I think personally, everyone has a preference...so guy's don't go assuming that your girl will love one or the other. You need to ASK.

Personally, I hate it when a new lover thinks they know exactly what I want..based on their past lovers. I'm not your ex...and I don't want to be treated like her, in the bedroom or out of it! However, that is a two way street...girls don't think just because your ex liked his ass fingered while getting a blowjob, don't assume your new guy will!! Seriously, if you are too shy to ask each other what you like..and to answer that question HONESTLY, then how are you going to have fun and enjoy the moment?

No guy wants to lay there...his ass clenched, hoping you get the hint that he's not into anal play. Just like no girl wants a guy to assume that he can cum in her mouth! We have got to communicate with our lovers more openly and honestly. Shyness has no place in the bedroom if you want to have really great sex!!
all pics/video via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

Unexplored territory!

I know that when we think of sexy body parts...you might not immediately think of a woman's back.  However, I think the curves there are beautiful!! Plus, if she has those cute little dimples right above her butt...even sexier! 

The next time you're fucking your woman doggy style, take a few minutes to really appreciate the sway in her back as she arches her butt up to allow you access to her pussy.  Notice the way her muscles move as she holds herself up on all fours.  Feel her soft smooth skin.  See, if maybe you don't start to think that a woman's back is an under utilized erogenous zone!

I think we too often men tunnel vision...they see tits, ass and pussy.. that is where the focus is.  They forget that there is a lot of sensitive in between!!  Now, I will say that women do the same  thing, we kiss you and maybe play with your nipples then we go right down to suck your cock and balls....we don't think about nibbling or massaging your ass cheeks, or biting the back of your neck while we rub our pussy against your ass.  We rarely even kiss down your spine.  So, we can't really sit back and feel superior, because we are guilty of it too!! 

I once had a girlfriend that loved for her boyfriend to kiss her armpits and the back of her knees.  I actually thought that was kind of weird, until I tried it.  Suddenly, I realized that my body really is a "wonderland" ;) 

There are a lot of sexy and sensitive spots on the human body.  I think we should think outside of the "box" and spend a little more time enjoying those unexplored areas that might be just the spot to make his..or her toes curl!!

It made me wet..

Honestly, there are pics/videos that I see when researching for my blog that make me wet.  I personally really enjoy close up views of the action.  As a woman, we rarely get to see the same view that our partner gets to enjoy...so getting to see pussy lips being split open or a finger teasing a wet slit really gets my juices flowing!!

I will tell you a secret, when a guy has precum on his cock head and he smears it all over my clit...well I can't think of anything sexier!  It's a mix of stimulation from his slippery swollen head rubbing my slippery swollen clit that really makes my pussy hungry for more! 

I think women are afraid to say that we want to see the action!  We are visual too!!  We all know that you shouldn't take naughty pics with your cell phone...that is why I miss a good old fashioned polaroid!  However, there is nothing stopping you and your lover from getting a few sexy shots of his cock inside your pussy.  I have a few of these pics ;)  I also have a friend that has contributed a few of her "personal" shots for this blog post!! 

I know that a lot of men want to take sexy pics of their women. I say, you have to decide if there is true TRUST between you.  We've all seen the horror stories of a vengeful ex using naughty pics to hurt their partner...sending them to family and friends.  Only you can decide if you are willing to take that risk.  However, let me just say...if you use a pic/video like that against your ex then you are a piece of crap in my book.  It is such a horrible abuse of trust.

If you choose to take a few naughty pics...then you might find that you love seeing what you've been missing!!  It can be a very sexy way to spice up your sex life.  If you choose not to take your own pics (I fully understand!), then I hope that the ones I'm adding to this post let you see just how sexy the view is between your legs!
all pics via http://storagemistress.tumblr.com/archive

In the car..

For some reason, we think that we are "invisible" when we are in a car. You'll see people picking their noses, putting on makeup and occasionally giving a blow job!

I'll admit to having had sex in a car...and to giving a blow job while in a moving vehicle. Is this safe, I doubt it. It's easy for the driver to get distracted by the mouth sliding up and down on his cock and like texting and driving..it's hard to concentrate on two things at the same time!! For safety I'd recommend any car sex be in a parked vehicle (this is my disclaimer!). Plus, everyone in an SUV/Semi-truck can see what you're doing! This may or may not be a good thing, depending on how much of an exhibitionist you are! ;)

I've also had sex in the backseat...in the front seat and on the hood. A car is a very convenient location to have sex. For all of you horny people that can't wait for the privacy of your bedroom then a car is the next best thing! I remember laying in the back seat, my legs spread and my bf at the time fucking me. It felt risky and naughty and I loved every minute of it! You get that mix of adrenaline from the fear of getting caught along with exhibitionism of knowing that you could be seen! It's a heady mix that leads to some great orgasms!

I also had sex on the hood of his car. We were parked and we needed a little more room than the backseat. He bent me over the hood and fucked me from behind. When he pulled my skirt up and exposed my ass and pussy...I could feel the wind and the sun and I felt like a sex goddess bent over getting fucked by a stud! Being naked outside is almost an aphrodisiac!

Sex in the front seat is all about the cowgirl! There is no other way to do it without a bunch of awkward moves and the risk of an elbow or knee ending up in a very uncomfortable place! Recline the seat and wiggle your pussy up and down on his cock while you lean forward...giving him full access to your tits and mouth. You can't really sit up straight because your head will band on the roof of the car and you don't need a concussion!

I know that sex in your car can be fun, wild and sexy!! Just remember that you aren't cloaked by invisibility so choose your location wisely. Plus, remember that sex and driving is a lot more distracting than sexting and driving! So, safety first..orgasm second!
all pics via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

Missionary!

Missionary is...in my opinion..the best position EVER!  That isn't to say that all other positions aren't fun, because THEY ARE, but there is a reason that missionary is foundation of sex.

Missionary position fulfills every need.  You can look into your lover's eyes.  You can whisper to them, you can touch, and kiss their mouth, neck or nipples.  His thrusts can go deep or stay shallow. Your lover can watch his cock moving in and out of your pussy.  He can tease by sliding his cock between your pussy lips, back and forth.  Or just offer your hungry hole the tip to suck on.   She can work her hips in a way that isn't always easy to do in any other position.  I know that personally, I can really use my kegel abilities to their best advantage when I'm in a missionary position with my lover.  I have actually been able to squeeze a lover's cock (using kegels--do them!) to the point that they will cum without ever thrusting, other than the initial insertion!  It's a position that is as conducive to sweet and loving and it is to wild and lusty. 

Think about the first time you had sex.  I bet that 99.9% of you started out in the missionary position.  I know I did!  Inexperience means that you go to the direct path and spreading your legs and letting your partner mount your pussy doesn't require any in depth knowledge of sex, it's almost instinctive.

I have two favorite positions.  Missionary and doggy.  I know that a lot of women love cowgirl, because it's easier for them to orgasm as they rub their clits against their partner's pubic bone.  However, this has always seemed a little awkward to accomplish for me, so although this position is fun...I rarely ever cum while riding.  Which goes back to some of my earlier posts about how every lover is different and maybe your last gf came like a volcano while riding you cowgirl...but, that doesn't mean I will.  You really need to find out what your lover likes, and take into consideration that everyone is different.  I'm going to slip in that reminder to COMMUNICATE, because it really is the best way to ensure you have great sex!

Now back to missionary.  There are some variations to it, that still allow for that same feeling of intimacy, but also shaking things up a bit.  You can vary the position of your legs..the farther back they go, the deeper he goes.  You can move both your legs to one of his shoulders, which once your legs are closed and pushed back will really tighten up your pussy and cause a lot more friction on his thrusting cock.  You can also lay on your side and scissor your legs allowing your lover to straddle your lower leg and raise your upper leg..this allows for deep penetration, but also lets him have access to almost every part of your body.  He can enjoy your tits, your clit, your ass and if he wants..still lean down to kiss you or watch your face as you cum!!

Missionary is a tried and true position that will never fail you. Whether you are looking to bond with your lover during a gentle session of lovemaking, or you want to mount her and ride her fast and hard..making her tits bounce.  Better yet, maybe you'll end up doing both!! 

I will say that when I get on all 4's (doggy) I know that there isn't going to be a lot of intimacy involved.  This is a position that is all about dominant fucking.  There is a reason it mimics nature, because it's about a male taking a female.  There is usually ass smacking and hair pulling and a whole lot of deep hard fucking.  This is why it's my 2nd favorite ;)  However, it is probably the worst position for an intimate moment.  You are facing away from each other, making it almost impossible to see each other without some serious neck straining.  There are no whispered words...because your lover won't be able to hear you, so you'll have to get loud! 

Missionary sex sometimes gets a bad rap.  People tend to think of it as "vanilla" sex.  Yes, there may be other more exotic positions out there, but that doesn't mean that you have to give up missionary!!  Add the other positions to your bedroom, but remember at the end of the day...when all you want is to feel your lover's body against yours...missionary is still your best bet!
all video/pics via http://storagemistress.tumblr.com/archive/2012/1

Rode hard and put up wet!

Have you ever been fucked until your pussy is puffy and red? Have you had your pussy pounded so hard by a cock that you can barely walk the next day? Have you ever said "FUCK ME HARDER"..only to regret it 20 minutes later when your pussy is on fire? If you have had any of these scenarios then all I have to say is LUCKY YOU!! :)

Sometimes you want to FEEL that you've been "rode hard and put up wet" as they say. You want to know that your man was between your legs and you won't forget it for a few days. Plus, for a guy..is there anything sexier than a woman that is panting, wet with sweat and cum, with a beautiful pink swollen pussy? Knowing that you just gave her the best fuck of her life!

I think we forget how visual we are...both men and women. So, the next time you and your lover have sex, lay there..with your legs spread wide. Let him look at what his cock has done to your lovely pussy. Let him see his cum on your shiny wet lips. Let him savor the visual of you being his willing and loving female, while you enjoy the feel of your puffy, aching and well fucked pussy!
It just may inspire him to slip his cock in again....or at least offer to clean you up ;)

Now, I will say that this part may not be for everyone, but personally...I love it when a man isn't afraid to lick my messy pussy..cleaning up after himself, so to speak.  I think it's incredibly sexy.  I  had an ex that loved it when I would suck him clean after we had sex...and he'd reciprocate by licking me clean as well.  I always came again, just to give him a little sweet cum award for a job well done ;)  If you've never done this, you may want to try it.  After all, it's yours..why not taste it? But, if it's not your thing, then no worries, just be sure to give your woman extra kisses and keep a damp washcloth beside the bed!
all pics via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

GUEST POST on Nipple Piercings by @PaulBritPhoto

This is a guest post by my friend Paul Roberts..you can follow him on Twitter @PaulBritPhoto He agreed to do this post for me about nipple ring piercings and I think he did a great job describing all aspects!  Leave him comments and feedback, I'm sure he'd appreciate your thoughts! Hugs YogaChikk

Introduction & Background:
Piercings are socially "polarizing." Public disdain aside, because ALL that matters is YOU ... they an be fun, expressive & very artistic. But what I realized early on, and few people do ...  is that they can be extremely practical and functional. They can serve a physical & emotional purpose. For me, it was nipple rings. These are my thoughts on the sensual benefits of nipple piercings as well as a "practical guide" for anyone considering them. Brief history of my experience with all piercings: A former girlfriend commented to me in 1989 "you'd look good with an earring." I laughed it off, but went to a mall and (regretfully) with one of those "guns," had 2 piercings in one ear. Actually "piercing" is incorrect - more like "crappy hole-punched." Mall "piercing guns" tear a ragged hole through the flesh and compress more than they cut. They are inefficient, often crooked, can result in keyloiding and infection. Sure enough, I went camping, they got infected, I took 'em out and said "never again." In 2008, I found a PROPER piercer who used the tried and true "hollow needle," they healed great, and I've worn them ever since. Now here's the good part: in October of 2008 I decided after some deliberation to have my nipples pierced. I won't lie; it was painful as hell. No false "macho" here ... I let a scream out of me that damn near shattered Gina's studio window :-) However, on the way HOME two things happened ~ 1] the pain was almost gone and 2] I couldn't stop smiling as my shirt brushed against them. Talk about a happy commute. Next morning they were even better; they healed very quickly because I followed instructions. These insturctions vary by piercer, but I used alcohol for first 3 days, then neosporin & hydrogen peroxide for another week. In shower, twice a day - NON fragrance soap. Cleaning is essential and a good reason to get "hoops" vs barbells as they can be easily turned. Mine healed in a "record" 3 weeks; your mileage may vary.

The Good Part 1: Sensuality and Benefits:
Women (obviously} have sensitive, arousable areolas and nipples. About 30% of MEN also like nipple stimulation - the lightest of caresses from their girl is amazing, and when "it's time for him," two wet thumbs and a sexy look and they become the "launch buttons," at least for me. I've read that some men actually do NOT like the nipples touched; it's either uncomfortable or they feel nothing. But if you're in that 30% like me, where your nips are almost physically connected to your prostate ... you should SERIOUSLY consider having them pierced. Women who like alternate nipple play between very VERY soft caresses of the nipple to out and out "pinching/pulling" will LOVE nipple rings as they provide whole other "ranges" between gentle and hard. "Flicking" and very gentle pinching of the nipple on both sides of the piercing will feel wonderful, ascending to harder pinching or out and out pulling on the ring itself. Barbells allow for the former, hoops are wayyy better for the latter ;-p Slight pulling on the rings combined with a twist ... if your lover is careful ... can keep you on a plateau you haven't felt before. If you're being "dominated" by a partner and submissively on your knees for example ... the mutual satisfaction is tantalizing, arousing and amazing. By going to heavier gauge (thicker) rings and not necessarily larger overall size, the simple lifting and dropping of the ring by your partner is hugely stimulting. Placing of thumb & forefinger (very gently) on the nipple itself and lightly stroking and or squeezing against the piercing is wonderful. Then, combining that while reaching up from giving oral and it's a whole new level of excitement, especially during

The Good Part 2: Technicals: Size Matters:
Well first of all, don't nelly out and do just one nipple; I've always thought that was a little strange looking and silly ... do 'em both. You will be hard if the breeze blows, and especially if you taper, or "gauge up." Most initial nipple piercings are 14 gauge; one joker in Wichita Falls actually recommended 18 gauge (common earring size) to my girlfriend because it would hurt less & be "prettier." This is bad on 2 counts: 1] You won't be as stimulated and 2] they're VERY easily damaged/bent/twisted/misformed, and not only during sex - showering, clothing, lying on them as you sleep, etc etc. Especially for a guy who perhaps a physically demanding job, mowing the lawn, playing sports, etc etc. Go with at least 14 gauge as I did.The gauge size is important depending on the size of our nipples, male or female.  Each time you gauge, it completely renews the stimulation factor because they're "tighter," and also adds more weight or "heft," so that your partner flicking them is enough. As you are riding her, the back and forth making them "jiggle" slightly (you, as well as her!) ... is indescribable. My experience: A year later (2009) I tapered them TWO steps larger ... from 14 >12, and at same time 12 > 10 ... in one "sitting." That wasn't "pleasant" either. Later that year David at Palm Springs Piercing stretched (tapered) them from #10 to #8. 6 months ago in September, I did my OWN from #8 to #6. Just pushed the 6s right through. Last week (which is why I waited to write this blog) - I bought a tapering needle and tapered myself from #6 to #4. they feel AMAZING. I doubt I'll go up to #2; "4" is a good stopping point otherwise I'll eventually have tractor tires through my tits ... hahaha ... but the heft of the 4s plus the tightness ... well let's just say they're terrific. Women with larger, thick nipples will support that weight; if your nipples are less than 3mm diameter when erect, you might stop at #8. Personally my nipples were always "insies" vs "outsies." With piercings they are constant outsides and erect at all times.

Note Regarding Women Anticipating Pregnancy:
A woman becoming pregnant will have to remove them for nursing not only for obvious reasons like being sanitary to the baby, but as it will "spritz" milk flow. Don't worry that milk won't get through, that isn't a problem. I would recommend nursing and then putting back same day, as over a few months they might close ... and I don't think ANYONE would want to redo the piercing process although some friends of mine have. There's also the issue of women go to doctors more often (because men are stupid)... you would obviously have to remove them for mammograms, etc.

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Don't get naked too fast!

Often we are in such a rush to get naked.  To throw off our clothes and rush to the finish line.  What is wrong with a little bit of anticipation??  I actually remember having a boyfriend that I'd sit on, like the girl in the first video...I'd grind against his cock until we both came.  We never had sex, but we sure simulated it enough..and it was always incredibly hot. 

In fact, once I started having sex, I really missed those moments of teasing...when the only thing keeping him from ramming into my pussy was a pair of panties.  I think we need stop getting naked so fast, spend a little time in your clothes, building up to that moment when you just can't wait any longer!! 

I remember having a partner that loved to rub and tease my pussy thru my panties until they were soaked, then he'd slowly peel them off me and sniff the wet crotch.  It was one of the sexiest things I've ever had a man do in bed with me.  Knowing that he was addicted to my scent, and the feel of his fingers touching me, but with a barrier between them and my soaking wet pussy drove me crazy.  I'd wiggle my hips and plead for him to reach underneath my panties, or take them off.  He did, but he always took his sweet time!

Often, we get into a rut with our sex life.  It's the same old thing..everytime.  Well, what a way to shake it up!!  Do a little dry humping and challenge yourself to see just how long you can hold out.  I think we forget that just because we are adults doesn't mean we don't like to play..and this can be a very sexy game! 




all pics/video via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com

WTH were they thinking?

Sometimes I see videos or pics and I have to do these posts where I share the absurd, weird, or unusual! I'll give my thoughts on each pic/video individually...if you want to share yours then comment!!
All pics below via http://www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com/

*So, this is what they mean by the "smoking gun"..

*Is this what happened to pinnochio?? LOL

*LOL..if this is the maid of the future, then the Jetson's had it all wrong!

*Poor Ken..he doesn't stand a chance now! lol

*so this is what happens when the cork doesn't pop off..seriously though, if you can do this, no one will ever say "Wow, you're so tight!" again.