Simultaneous Orgasms!

Simultaneous orgasms are something that most couples dream of achieving...and may actually accomplish on occasion.  There is something about reaching that peak together, that feels exceptionally bonding and intimate.  The feel of your pussy spasming and clenching around his throbbing and gushing cock is beyond incredible.  But, its harder to do than you might think...

The reason it is harder to reach the peak together is because of the difference in anatomy and the basic dynamics of what makes men and women cum.  Men's cocks are stimulated from the head all along the length of the shaft as they pump into a slippery snug pussy...however, women rarely have orgasms based on penetration alone, they need their clit engaged in the action to cum. 

Men see women in porn being fucked and cumming without any clit stimulation and they think that "regular" women can do the same thing.  Let me tell you a secret...that porn star is faking it.  All that moaning and squealing looks and sounds good on camera but once the camera is off and the guys pulls out, she goes back to her house...and she masturbates by massaging her clit to actually cum!  So, on the road to simultaneous orgasms, you can't forget the clit!!

Then there is the problem of timing.  Women are slower to warm up...we require more foreplay and it typically takes women longer than men realize to cum.  Again, we have porn to thank for the fact that men seem to think a woman can cum in under 5 minutes...sometimes we can, but we typically require more time than that!  So, get that clit primed to cum before you mount her pussy!  Get her to the point that she is panting and moaning and her clit it out from under its hood...all shiny pink and swollen THEN climb on top and fuck that hot pussy!  All she has to do is massage her already sensitive clit and the chances of you cumming together are much greater..because she is now closer to your cum time!

To have simultaneous orgasms...you need a woman that isn't afraid to rub her clit.  As women we tend to think that our men should always "give" us an orgasm.  I say, you have a hand with fingers...and there is nothing stopping you from giving yourself an orgasm!  Don't be shy about massaging your clit while your man fucks you...in fact, he'll probably love it!  Its a great visual, his cock sliding in and out of your hot slit while your finger moves over your love nub!  It also allows you to use the pressure and speed you need to match your lover.  By rubbing your clit while he fucks you...you can speed up teasing it as he gets closer to cumming...and the combined feeling of fullness from his cock and your finger on your hard clit is often exactly what you need to push you over the edge TOGETHER. 

Some women are able to accomplish this also by riding their partner's cock..leaning forward and rubbing their clit against his pubic bone as they fuck each other.  This position allows the woman to control the pressure she needs to give her enough sensation to let her orgasm at the same time as her man.  However, this position won't give as good of results as when she...or YOU rubs her clit.  Now, in the cowgirl position...she can always spread her legs and finger her clit as she rides you.  This gives you quite the sexy view of your woman bouncing on your cock fingering her swollen little clit nub as she prepares to cum all over your cock as you fill her with your hot cum! 

Really all you need for simultaneous orgasms is lovers that want to share that moment together.  Then you will find a way.  You'll shrug off any shyness and you'll accept the extra effort that goes into the moment...because in the end, reaching that pinnacle together will be so much sweeter.  As always Happy Fucking!





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Sex Outside!

So what is it about sex outside that makes people risk prying eyes and a misdemeanor?  Personally, I think its that thrill of being caught..of maybe being seen.  That adrenaline rush of possibly having to throw on your clothes and explain just why you were fucking in public to a very stern looking policeman! 

I'll admit, I've had sex in public..out in the open, on a picnic bench in the park.  I am not immune to that thrill of feeling a warm breeze across my fucked pussy as cars drive by and the way the thought of being seen by strangers fans the fires of an orgasm!  I've also had my skirt raised up and been vigorously finger fucked in an elevator by a partner...trying not to moan or let the other passengers know that I was being penetrated was an incredible turn on.  I still think they had to be able to smell the scent of hot horny pussy but were simply too polite to turn around and see what was happening!

When it comes to sex in public...I think everyone has tried it once.  If you've ever given a blow job while your man is driving (the truckers can see you!)...or if you've ever had sex on a balcony or in the coat closet/bedroom/restroom at a party, then you've felt that adrenaline rush that I'm talking about!  Now, I do have to say that as I was looking for pics for this blog post...I started wondering where all these big open meadows are that people are fucking in, because I want to fuck in a field of daisy's too!! lol 

Also, for the women out there...if you're going to have some naughty public fun, then let me give you a few hints.  Wear a skirt...you can pull it up and expose your slit for instant pleasure or pull it down and be covered in .03 seconds! Don't wear panties, they are impossible to put on in a hurry, they will get all twisted up around your feet and the next thing you know you'll be caught..literally with your panties down!  Also, no buttons on your shirt...a nice soft stretchy sweater/tshirt allows for a quick redressing if called upon! 

Now, as fun as fucking in public may be...please use some common sense,  don't fuck where you're going to get caught by your pastor, kids, or anyone else that really shouldn't see you in a compromising position!  Also, remember that almost everyone has a cell phone camera now, so you are risking your naughty tryst showing up on the internet! Plus, it is against the law...indecent exposure laws were probably written just to address horny people that get it on in public! However, if you still wish to give it a try then all I have to say is...HAPPY FUCKING!













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Multiple Orgasms!

I was asked to write a blog about how to give a woman multiple orgasms.  Well..its simple, if you can give her ONE orgasm, then you can give her multiples!  However there is a "trick" to it...and I'll tell you what it is..

Men know that women don't require the same "down" time that they do after having an orgasm.  Yet, they make the mistake of thinking we don't require ANY down time, but we do.  Our clits are very sensitive once we cum and if you try to make us cum again immediately...well its just going to be uncomfortable and annoying and in the end, your chances of getting her to cum again will be almost impossible. 

What you need to do is simple, once you give her a mind blowing orgasm, leave her clit alone for about 5 minutes!  During that 5 minutes, kiss her...massage her plump OUTER pussy lips or gently rim her opening...play or suck her nipples...whisper how sexy it was watching her cum, but whatever you do, don't touch her clit!!  It needs a few minutes to stop throbbing and to move back under its little protective hood.  Then you can gently coax it out, and give her an amazing orgasm AGAIN! 

Typically the best way for a woman to have multiple orgasms is through a combination of oral and finger stimulation.  Most women (yes, MOST women!!) do not have orgasms through vaginal sex alone.  That is a fact, whether you are going for a multiple or a single orgasm.  If you want her to cum,  you have to show the clit some love!! Also, mix it up...if you made her cum from flicking her clit with your tongue, then she's a lucky girl, but she might need a different form of stimulation for her next orgasm, and your finger gently stroking her hard little nub might be just what it needs to push her over the edge for you again.  The thing is..don't rush it, a second orgasm usually takes a little longer to achieve than a first one. 

And, please...please...PLEASE don't ask every 30 seconds "Are you going to cum?"  The pressure from that question is a cum killer!!!  Also, don't ask "Did you cum baby?"...if she did, you'll know and won't have to ask!  A woman's pussy will spasm, throb, clench and release and get extra juice or may even squirt...all things you'll NOTICE when she actually cums.  If you have to ask her if she came, chances are...she didn't!  Women watch porn too and we think that if we don't cum within the first 10 minutes of sex, that you'll think there is something wrong with us...or your technique.  The reality is, women are slower to warm up, and often it takes us longer to have an orgasm than men realize.  Plus, women need to engage their minds in the moment as well as their bodies and if they are worried that you are thinking they are taking too long, then they will fake it.  I don't want any woman to ever have to fake another orgasm...EVER.  It cheats both of you out of a truly enjoyable moment.  So, if you want to ask her anything...ask her if it feels good!! Ask her if she likes it when you flick her clit or suck it...or does she want you to finger her at the same time or not.  You'll get her closer to an orgasm with those questions than the others..trust me on this!

I do want to say this, multiple orgasms are great..but so are single ones!  Don't think you're a failure if she cums once and then she's done.  Every woman is different and some women are able to enjoy more than one orgasm, but some women only want ONE orgasm!  I've had multiple orgasms, and single orgasms and honestly for me...I found that the man was so intent on giving me "multiples" that he seemed to forget there was more to making love than my pussy.  Goal oriented is good, but not when it goes to the extreme.  I actually ended up faking it more than once, just to get him to STOP and spend some time above my waistline...kissing and whispering with me. 

Men seem to think that all women want to have multiples.  What all women want is a mutually satisfying sexual experience...if you both cum, that is awesome.  But, I've also had mutually satisfying sexual experiences where I didn't cum, but I did make love and felt bonded to my partner.  So, cumming is great and fun and delicious..but its not everything.  So, please...don't get so caught up in the desire to give her multiples that you forget that she wants to make love to YOU, not just your tongue or your fingers. 

So, tonight...if you make your woman cum once, or twice, or three times then don't despair that she didn't cum five times...instead, enjoy the pleasure that you brought each other and remember that the best way to give her multiple orgasms, is to give her one every night for the rest of her life! ;) As always...Happy Fucking!

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Tie me up!

Bondage is one of those things that a lot of people consider trying..but they just aren't sure how to tell their partner TIE ME UP!! 

There are levels of bondage...light bondage, as in using a things like silk ribbons, pieces of fabric, or even a man's tie to accomplish the goal of restraint.  These are usually things that you could easily get out of...if you really wanted too.  In light bondage, the bondage isn't as much a physical restraint as it is a mental one.  You are "allowing" your partner to tie you up and have their way with your body.  Its sexy as hell and this is often the level that most people try and enjoy.

There is also more hard core bondage.  This involves intricate knots, handcuffs and "trussing" your partner up in various positions.  This is a very dominant form of bondage and requires a submissive and compliant partner.  Sometimes the very act of restraining your partner in elaborate ways is part of the turn on.  With this type of bondage, I'd recommend a safe word.  There has to be a way for your partner to let you know when they've had enough, especially if they are going to be restrained in unusual or uncomfortable positions for an indeterminate amount of time. 

Now some people aren't cool with being restrained at all.  They don't enjoy the feeling of helplessness that it brings and it may even frighten them.  So, before you break out the handcuffs...talk to your partner about bondage, if they are interested in trying it and how far they want it to go.  Communication is ALWAYS your best tool for awesome sex that is mutually satisfying. 

I will tell you that I've had some experience with bondage...both soft and hard core.  I personally enjoyed the light bondage much more.  I like the feeling of being restrained, but not of being at someone's mercy..so to speak.  Often when there is bondage there is also varying degrees of domination and submission that comes into play.  For me, when I was tied down...my legs spread wide..my partner used my body for his pleasure (and ultimately mine as well!).  He was able to explore me with his mouth, fingers and cock in ways that he had not done before.  I was open to his every desire..literally!

Now, when I participated in hard core bondage, there was not only physical restraint, but the whole experience was very physical.  In addition to being blindfolded, it was a very sensory overload experience in a lot of ways.  I didn't actually enjoy it, because the anticipation of what was coming next, left me more anxious than turned on.  However, I could see how for some couples this could become a very erotic game they play.  I personally think it all comes down to the relationship dynamic and how you feel about higher levels of domination and submission.

Bondage is lover's play...and however you choose to play it, the rules are up to you.  Just be sure that you talk about it and communicate to your lover beforehand, what you are comfortable with and what you aren't...so tonight, tie em' up and make em' moan!





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The sexiest lingerie a woman can own!

To me there is nothing that says sex goddess the way a corset does!  That cinched in tiny waist, the lacing..the boning..it is all just so sexy!  Your man has to slowly unlace..unwrap..his delicious prize.  You get a glimpse of that hourglass shape that is so incredibly feminine!!  Personally, if I could..I'd wear a corset 24/7!!  I love the way it pushes your breasts up like a pirates naughty wench, the way no matter how big or small you are, it enhances EVERYTHING you want enhanced and minimizes everything else!  To me, a corset is the sexiest piece of clothing a woman can own, next to seamed stockings and a garter belt!

I never wear pantyhose.  I am a stocking and garter belt woman all the way.  It doesn't matter if I'm going to church or a meeting or out dancing.  In fact, I hate this new "trend" of going bare legged with dresses.  I buck the trend and slide on my seamed stockings with lace trimmed tops and then snap them to my garter belt and I feel sexy, and powerful and ready to rule the world!  Its amazing how lingerie can make a woman feel, its like a sexy secret that only you know...and you can share it as you see fit!  I have actually let my skirt ride up a little high on my thigh before to show off my garter belt in a very successful bid at flirting with a guy that later spent a year in my bed ;)


So, if you need some new lingerie...buy a corset, a garter and some stockings!  You won't be sorry, you'll feel like a wanton sex goddess in it and that is exactly how lingerie is supposed to make you feel!! 











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Erotic versus Pornographic!

I started thinking about the word "erotic" and what it means to me....I see a lot of pictures for my blog, some are pornographic and some are erotic.  I started thinking about what separates the two...

For me something that is erotic ...hints at sexuality.  It is the picture of an intense kiss or a woman  unzipping her gown to reveal that there is nothing underneath her dress, at least that is what your imagination will tell you...but you won't actually SEE her naked.  To me erotic is something that draws you in and makes you want to see, or know more.  Erotic is the feeling of being teased...just enough to make your pussy wet or cock hard.

Pornographic is more hard core.  Often there is no mystery...its out in the open SEX.  To me pornography isn't bad, it simply is what it is.  Sometimes you want a taste, sometimes you want the whole cookie and pornography is definitely the whole cookie!  I think there is room for both.  Sometimes I like the gentle teasing that comes with erotica...either in book or picture form.  And, sometimes I just want hot lusty sex...usually in some visual medium, either a picture or video.  I don't make any apologies for liking pornography.  Its sexy to see other people fucking.  It makes my pussy wet and makes me crave a cock between my thighs!

I have a friend that is completely against pornography in any form, but she'll read a romance novel and drool over the sexy sections.  I say, if that is what you are comfortable with, then so be it.  We all have personal boundaries.  However, my boundary happens to include porn!  I have seen other people having sex, I've let other people watch me have sex.  I've watched porn and tried to mimic what the other people were doing with my partner...all of it has been fun. 

Now, is there social issues that come from pornography...of course.  But, you can't suppress sexuality.  Sexuality will find a way, because  its a basic human need.   However, I'm not going to focus on that, because there are enough people in the world telling you how bad pornography is...I think you've heard the argument enough times already.

Back to erotic...to me there is room for erotica in every sex life.  There is room for an appreciation for art and the human form.  For the curves of a woman to the jutting angles of a man.  Erotic allows you to finish the moment in your mind....the zipper coming down and the dress falling off.  The towel dropping exposing the extent of his excitement...the wetness that is just barely hidden by a pair of panties.  Erotica can be an amazing addition to your sex life, either as a couple or individually.  It can cause delicious fantasies that transport you to realms of ecstacy. 

So tonight, pick up a sexy book, look at the pics in my blog...or find some of your own. But, take a moment to find out what is erotic to you! 

above video via yany's eroticpics




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Sexy Tattoos!

As the recipient of a new second tattoo...I thought I'd pay homage to people that love ink!  Here are some of the sexiest tattoo pictures I have found!  Hope you love them as much as I do!





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